12 Wedding Advice from Maya Septha It Can You Make Lessons
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Living a home life does not always go smoothly. There will be pebbles while living it. There must be an effort from both sides in maintaining the integrity and harmony. For akths Maya Septha, there are some important things that could be a lesson in the wedding, including not to choose the wrong pair.
This beautiful woman is also known to actively participate in parenting seminars and weddings you know. He is also kind enough to share his thoughts about marriage through photo caption in Instagram. Let's check out 12 his advice neng Maya!
1. The basic marriage is a commitment, so make sure you give your commitment to the person who deserves it so not the drama.
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Why do not we just pick a spouse? Because the whole life is long. Because we will many ngalah, have a lot to understand, so disappointed etc for him for life. So make sure your choice is equal to it all. Because so parents need two adults. Fuss if gedein child with people who are like children. Because he will be the role model of our children. So there will be many people whose attitude is like him in our home. Because if one choose people can be like living in hell. But if before you get married you know what you're looking for, you sure you already know the shortcomings and ready to accept the ugliness for life, you will be fine.One thing to think about, if he one day gets poor, so fat, so wrinkled, or maybe sick , what makes you stick with him? Do not say love please. Love is necessary, of course. But the bottom of marriage has to be commitment. Make sure you give your commitment to the person who deserves it. So that your life is not drama.
2. Marriage is like an empty box, it depends on what you two give to each other.
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Many people crave and dream of wanting to get married quickly. They think marriage is a gift box that contains a lot of happiness and romance. In the case of marriage is like an empty box. There's nothing in it unless you put it first. The contents depend on what you two give each other. If you place a commitment, loyalty, a good word, affection, understanding, forgiveness and effort to please your partner then that is also the contents of your box. We can not take what we do not fill in first . The more giving the good the two the more the good content. Likewise vice versa. If couples fill the bad and you also do not want to lose reply to fill things that are not good, then that's all the contents of your box. But if you keep filling the good as much as undoubtedly the contents of your box is still a lot of baik.Perlu maturity and great sincerity to do it anyway. What have you put in your box?
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3. Life is easy because sincere. Marriage is happier because of sincerity.
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IKHLAS.Hidup feels easy because sincere. Marriage is happier because of sincerity. Ikhlasnya difficult. But if dikerjain, anything so much easier. Your life. Your wedding. Your job. Your friendship. What aja.Nggak mikirin yourself for sincerity. Not ngarepin behind for sincere. Not disappointed because sincere. Many give because ikhlas.Saya not want anything God does not give to me. God knows best for me. If God does not give me what I want too I sincerely. Even if God wants to take what He has also given me ikhlas.Iklas is one of the statements of faith that you believe God's plan is greater than anything you face.
4. Trying to be a pleasant and demanding companion.
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In marriage, we chose to focus on the advantages of the couple and not to enlarge the deficiency.
Grateful for what is and do not expect nothing to bring disappointment. Trying to be a pleasant and demanding companion. Because nobody likes to be sued. And no affection comes from demanding each other.5. A good household produces a thousand and one goodness for old age.
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20 years from now nothing is more meaningful than admired to be loved by the child's own yearning. For me, the awards in the home are far more valuable than the respect and admiration of the people in the world. It means to be worshiped by one world if my husband and children say I am not successful in my role as wife and mother. Well of course i am not perfect and i have my own terms. Home improvement is priceless treasure and throne. A good household produces a thousand and one goodness for old age. So im investing my time on my husband and kids. Because i dont want to lose my long term while chasing whats temporary.
6. Before marriage make sure your partner puts the wedding in the same high place with you, so not to lose the same ego.
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I talked to the same friends who have long marriage. He said from the beginning of marriage sebel if her husband likes to put shoes at random. Liked to eat in bed. Bring a blanket to watch in the living room. While he himself is neat and clean. Until finally the emotions of soul and counseling. Then the question is, what's more important, what kind of neat shoe your wedding? Finally yes it is accepted because the integrity of the household is more important even though tetep resemble the shoes enter the room. Almost in every way, the question is more important where? Treasure on whose behalf or the integrity of your house? Got your money or your wedding? What should you wear or marry your way? Before marriage make sure your partner puts the wedding in the same high place as you, so it's not as bad as his ego. Make sure you also choose a good character that deserves your sacrifice. Because if already married just obligatory.
7. We can not set the situation or others. But we can set our own reactions and expectations.
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It's easier to be happy if you can accept deficiencies and imperfections. Rather than expecting perfection will come to give you happiness. We can not set things up or else. But we can set our own reactions and expectations. Your life. Your wedding. Any. Being happy is a decision.
8. Intimacy can only happen if you really know your partner and can trust it.
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Trust is a very important link for any relationship. To borrow money for example. I'm afraid this guarantee is still hard to get a loan. But there are people who do not need loans even offered a loan. It all depends on how you can be trusted. If you do not believe your partner is sad. You can not build anything without trust. Couples will not feel safe without trust. Your relationship is easily destroyed without trust. When trust is lost then anything built on it will easily collapse. If we believe in the couple then we will feel safe and do not need to worry and comfortable. Can relax aja geletakin hp do not need a password. Nothing to hide. Nothing to worry about. If we believe in our partner will get ketentraman.Tingkat trust determine the level of openness. The degree of openness determines the level of intimacy. The world offers romance. But intimacy can only happen if you really know your partner and can trust him.
9. Marriage is like a double badminton. Must be compact steadily.
12 Wedding Advice from Maya Septha It Can You Make Lessons
instagram.com/mayaseptha7Marriage is like a double badminton. If our partner makes a mistake, surely we quickly move on so we can focus on the next round game. We do not linger to nyalahin him. Because want to win. Can-can if busy fight later on the ball does not continue to beat. Finally lost in the game. We also can not resent then go ninggalin game. Wedding also so. Must be quick to forgive. So that our marriage will not lose the same problem. The kit must be kept compact.
10. Do not marry the same person who is not happy as his own life.
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Do not marry the same person who is not happy as his own life. She could have put her happiness into your marriage. Then blame you for his unhappiness. Do not be so so. Your guilt is your decision.
11. The greatest enemy of a good marriage is MALAS.
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The greatest enemy of a good marriage is MALAS. Lazy praised. Lazy say thank you. Lazy apologize. Lazy trying to please the couple. Lazy do more. Lazy having sex. Lazy to express the heart. Lazy communicates why we do what we do. Lazy explains desire, dream, fear, hope, insecurity. So that finally arises uncertainty and new problems arise.
12. Tranquility and happiness in old age is because our children have a good marriage and we have a big hand leading them there.
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Marriage is God's idea. That is why we are born into a family. Despite their various forms, some have no Father, some do not have Mother, but always a child comes from a man and woman who becomes his biological father and mother. Whether they play a good role in their lives or even not know it at all. I am grateful for my son. They are all great in my eyes. As a parent we surely upside down to prepare everything that is good for children. In order for them to have a good life. Good nutrition. Character is good. Good attitude. Good point of view. Good future. Good marriage. Why I really like to discuss marriage. I feel that is the most important essence in life. What a life if not wrong if we choose people. And how I wish my children did not misunderstand about it in the future. I understand that my marriage will be exemplified. My attributes and attitudes are emulated. Our hard work today is preparing for the maturity of our children to live independently and marry. I realize that the tranquility and happiness of old age is because our children have a good marriage. And we have a big hand leading them there.
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