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Here are six marriage messages to know

Marriage in Islamic law is to unite men and women legally and lawfully, through the consent of kabul and seen by some witnesses.

Ustadz Abdul Somad, Lc MA, Expert Hadits Riau Province says there are nine marriage messages, six of which are described below:






First:

Meeting For God Almighty.

Step, sustenance, meeting and death in the power of Allah SWT. But humans are empowered to choose and do what is called ikhtiyar.

The Messenger of Allah saith, "Allah has established the destiny of all beings, fifty thousand years before He created the heavens and the earth." (Hadith narrated by Imam Muslim, from Abdullah bin 'Amr). So understand that the couple as the choice of Allah SWT after passing through the process of human ikhtiyar with various kinds of scenarios, from the start of friends, until the wrong phone.

Three commoners were given a pen from the King. The first man said grudgingly, "The rich king just gives a pen!".

The second says, "Better, than nothing". The third says, "I do not see the pen, but what I see is who gave it".Second:

Married Half Faith. The most important thing in life is faith. Only by faith man will be saved in this world and the hereafter. Faith is the provision to God Almighty.


The marriage is half of that faith, as the Prophet said,
"Who is married, then he has perfected half his faith. Then he should fear Allah in half. " (Hadith narrated by Imam at-Thabrani, from Anas bin Malik, Hadith Hasan).





The supply has half filled, then complete it with piety to Allah SWT. When the provisions have been perfect, then do not ever decrease, because no one knows ntah if the journey will continue.

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Third:

Keeping the View and the Pubic.

Faith is invisible, because it is an inner problem. But faith is manifested in deeds.

When half the faith is done, it manifests in the form of eye care and genitalia. Thus the Prophet sallallahu 'alaihi wa salam,
"O youth, who among you can afford, then let him marry, for the marriage preserves the sight and the genitals. Whoever can not, then he should fast, because fasting is a keeper for him ". (Hadith narrated by Imam al-Bukhari and Imam Muslim, from Abdullah ibn Mas'ud).



Fourth:


The Couple Is a "Paragraph".
When it is said the word of the verse, then what is pictured in our mind is part of the sura in the Qur'an.

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Verses in Surah al-Fatihah, verses of Chairs and other verses. They are all written verses written in the Qur'an.

Yet there are other verses, the signs of Allah's greatness in the universe called the Kauniyyah Verses, among the verses that are heaven and earth, various languages ​​and colors and various other verses. One of the verses is a spouse. Allah Almighty says,
"And among the verses (His signs) is He created for you wives of your own kind." (Surat ar-Ruum [30]: 21).

 Wife became a verse for husband and husband to be a verse for the wife.

If each couple understands that his / her spouse is a verse, then no one will abuse the verse, there will be no acts of violence in the household. Because harassing a partner means harassing the verse, the signs of Allah SWT.fifth
Peace of the Soul. Man is made up of spirit and body. The calm body comes from a quiet spirit. The serenity of the spirit comes from Allah Almighty.

The serenity that is not from Allah SWT is a false calm because it is false. Allah SWT explains that one of the causes of tranquility is the spouse that Allah Almighty has established. His Word,

"So that you may be inclined and feel at ease with him". (Surat ar-Ruum [30]: 21).


Treasure can indeed give you peace. But tranquility is not on treasure. The proof, many people who have property, but do not get the peace in it.

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Sixth:

Seeing Equation Point.
Two different beings, until the westerner says, "Man are from Mars, Women are from Venus".

Everything is different, from physical form, innate nature, food taste and various other things. Allah SWT attaches that difference with Mawaddah and Rahmah.

Mawaddah see the physical beauty, Rahmah looked at the virtue mawaddah looked at the advantages, Rahmah cover the shortcomings.